Declarative Language - Say What?
- Jun 2
- 2 min read
Communicating Without Demands
When we think about language, we often focus on asking questions or giving directions. But there’s another way we communicate that plays a key role in speech therapy—declarative language. Unlike commands or questions, declarative language is about sharing thoughts, observations, and experiences without demanding a response or action.
What is Declarative Language?
Declarative language invites connection by commenting and observing rather than giving instructions. It doesn’t pressure kids to respond, giving them the freedom to engage in their own way. This helps build communication skills while encouraging autonomy and self-expression.
Examples of Declarative Language:
"That dog is running so fast!"
"I love pancakes—they’re my favorite breakfast."
"It’s so windy outside!"
Declarative vs. Directive Language
Directive Language: Focuses on compliance and answers.
"Pick up the toy."
"What color is the ball?"
Declarative Language: Shares ideas and fosters connection.
"That toy rolls really fast!"
"I wonder what will happen if we stack one more block."
Why Use Declarative Language in Speech Therapy?
Declarative language helps reduce pressure, making communication feel natural and open-ended. It’s especially helpful for children with social communication challenges, as it encourages thinking, observing, and making choices without the stress of needing to “get it right.”
Benefits:
Promotes autonomy—Kids choose how to respond.
Encourages social engagement—It opens space for natural conversation.
Builds flexible thinking—Children learn to observe and connect ideas.
How to Use Declarative Language
Try these simple strategies:
Comment on what’s happening: "You’re building such a tall tower!"
Share your thoughts: "This puzzle is tricky!"
Wonder out loud: "I wonder where that bird is flying."
Model emotions: "I’m feeling excited about our game!"
Declarative language helps kids feel empowered in communication, encouraging connection and conversation on their own terms. It’s a powerful tool that builds confidence and strengthens relationships.
Questions? Just reach out! Stephanie@bitesizedkids.com
